I refuse to see myself through toxic peoples eyes.
I refuse religious judgment from those who have no fruit or joy in their lives.
I refuse to beat myself up trying to figure out what I'm supposed to be when I grow up, it's ok to just "be".
I refuse to waste my time thinking about the past, ruminating, obsessing or regretting.
I refuse to "react" rather "respond" to life.
I will not engage people who hurt me, try to control my joy or have dishonored me.
I will not turn myself inside out for anyone. I am me.
Endings really are beginnings if I create that reality.
I will give myself guilt- free approval. I DESERVE to feel whole. No more accepting half- way relationships.
When wounds are triggered I will now ground myself and refuse to let them rule my mood.
Success means honoring myself and my family.
The Journey to healing is a step-by-step process and that's OK. At least I have a process.
Who I am is enough.
My childhood contracts are no longer valid.
I will evolve through eternal shifts at my own pace and the pace of those I love.
