This year I decided to embrace Valentines Day for many reasons. So I baked, and baked and baked today. I bought candy, gift bags, cards. I will have no expectations, for it doesn't matter. I will smile to know I made someones day. Valentines day is to make someone feel special.

Tips From Me and My Peeps

If You've Been Dating 1-3 Months
At this point in your relationship, take the traditional Valentine's Day gifts and add a special twist. Surprise your girl with sinfully delicious brownies, a back rub and dinner for two. You pay. No exceptions here.

If You've Been Dating 3-6 Months
This is luxe gift time, Instead of chocolates try giving a caviar, cheese and fruit spread for two before sex. Don't forget the creme fraiche and a nice bottle of champagne in the room with candles. Or take a bubble bath together, a girls fav. Tell her she's hot even if she forgot to shave her legs!

If You've Been Dating Six Months or Longer
Guys, we hate to break it to you, but six months or longer means jewelry. If you're not ready to commit, stick to bracelets, necklaces or earrings. If you need help picking something she'll like, ask her best friend to email you ideas . This is a must or you are clueless and will remain single for life.

If You Still Want to be in a Relationship Next Valentine's Day... do it.
Finally, guys, when it comes to Valentine's Day, flowers are mandatory. If you've had at least one date, and you're hoping for future contact, send flowers on Valentine's Day.

If you've been dating for three months, or married for 30 years, send flowers on Valentine's Day.

We can't tell you why it's so important, it just is.

Girl stuff.

Get a clue.